So How Much Would that Styled Wedding Cost Anyway?
One of the questions I always get when I post photos from a workshop or a styled shoot (aside from why do them, which is a whole different blog post) is “How much would that wedding cost?”. It’s easy to look at wedding magazines (do people even buy those anymore?!), Pinterest, Instagram, the Knot, and wherever else you are getting your wedding inspiration from, and say, “Oh, I want that at my wedding!” with no idea of what that would actually cost. So, for this edition of the Wedding Day Walk Through Workshop, I’ve put together some investment numbers to give you an approximation of what this wedding would cost to host as a real wedding.
These numbers are based on a 14 person micro-wedding in January, and that number includes the couple and the two attendants. It’s hard to approximate wedding costs for many wedding products and services because the have so many variables based on the specifics of your event, but this post will give you a ballpark idea of the real wedding cost.
The Venue
The George Washington Hotel’s Washington Room is the perfect size to host your ceremony, cocktail hour, and reception all in one place when you have a small, intimate wedding for a few of your closest loved ones.
The Cost BreakDOwn
Room Rental: $850 for ceremony and $1,500 for reception
Food and Beverages: Packages start at approximately $100 per person. (Note: During the busy season there is a $15,000 minimum for weddings held on Saturdays, which the room fees go toward.)
Total: approximately $3,750
The Linens
Table linens are a quick and easy way to elevate the look of your reception in a big way. I especially love adding textured linens for high photo areas like the sweetheart table and cake table. With Mosaic, Inc. linens, even the non-textured table cloths have an amazing weight to them that makes them feel luxurious. Only the napkins and our sweetheart tablecloth had Mosaic linens, but I’ve priced out as if we used all Mosaic linens because they are such excellent quality.
The Cost Breakdown
1 Storm Velvet 132 in. round tablecloth, 4 Storm Lamour 90 x 132'' (for 6ft rectangle) tablecloths, and 14 white gauze napkins
Total: approximately $417
The Tableware and Chairs
If you are having gold flatware at your wedding, sign me up! I love this modern gold flatware, and gold rimmed china and crystal, but these chargers are giving me life. And having a micro-wedding means that everybody can have a beautiful charger and feel special.
Although we borrowed our gold Chiavari chairs from Station House 7, she doesn’t normally rent them out, so I’ve priced renting them from Eventioneers along with the tableware.
The Cost BreakDown
Alpine Gold Chargers, Salad and Dinner Plates, York Gold Flatware, Fortessa Crystal, and Gold Chiavari chairs for 14, plus delivery fees
Total: approximately $365
The Florals
Flowers are definitely one of those categories where there is a huge amount of personalization and tiny variations in choices can make a big difference in the total cost. All of these price estimates from Mel’s Boutique depend on bloom choices, availability of materials, season, etc.
The Personal Flowers
Personal flowers are the flowers for the wedding couple and their attendants - in this case, bouquets and boutonnieres. Typically, more premium blooms are used in the flowers for the couple’s and their pieces are larger, so theirs cost more than the attendants’.
The cost breakdown
Celebrant Statement Bouquet: $200
Attendant Bouquet: $55
Boutonnieres: $15 each
The Ceremony Flowers
The altar arrangements’ gorgeous white blooms are large enough to make a statement in such a large room, but not so large as to overshadow the couple. Greenery and elegant branches, as well as a gold stand, help add height to the alter arrangements and candles, petals, and chair swags decorate the aisle.
The Cost Breakdown
Alter Arrangements: $250 each
Pillar candles and petals: $25 per cluster
Chair clusters $35 for both
The Reception Flowers
A mixture of taper candles in brass candle sticks, votives in gold rimmed crystal and smoked hobnail holders, and multi-sized floral arrangements create a lush runner down the center of the family style reception table for the attendants and guests.
The Cost BreakDown
Reception Table Candles + Arrangements: approx. $350
Sweetheart Table Arrangement: $175
All of the reception prices are very much dependent on the floral choices the couple makes and the availability of flowers. Luxury blooms like garden roses, peonies, etc. cost more. These prices include vases that the couple can keep; renting vases would lower the price. Delivery, set-up, and tear-down costs also apply, although you could avoid the tear down costs by returning any rented items to the florist yourself following the wedding.
The Cost Breakdown
Delivery and Set Up: $200
Tear-Down and Pick Up: $150
Floral Total: approximately $1,845
The Stationary
Fresh Cut Prints offers a special micro-wedding package, designed for weddings needing between 10 and 35 invitations. The package allows you to personalize and chose from four suite designs in 18 colors, three envelope colors, your invitation wording, and any package add-ons, like our vellum wrapper and wax seal, or mailing services you might chose to use.
The cost breakdown
10 Invitations, RSVP Cards, Mailing Envelopes, RSVP Envelopes, and Envelope Printing: $7.75 each
Vellum + Wax Seal: $4.00 each
Total: approximately $118
The Cake
Emily tells me that this cake will feed around 40 people, which is, of course, far more than we would need for a 14 person micro-wedding. But we wanted the cake to make a statement, and, honestly, is there really such a thing as too much cake? Especially cake as beautiful and delicious as Four Oaks Bakery cake. Just consider the extra as favors for your guests and snacks for your honeymoon!
the cost breakdown
3 tier cake (feeds 40) with custom decoration (and a fresh 4" buttercream cake at your first anniversary)
Total: $700 ($750 minimum waived due to Covid)
The Macarons and Bubbly Bombs
Who doesn’t want French macarons decorated to match their wedding cake for their cookie table? And it’s not a party until you have glittery champagne bombs.
Maisy Cakes’ custom decorated macaron prices vary from $2.50 - $4 each depending on the level of decoration, and plain ones are $24 a dozen. For ease of math, I priced them all at $4. Bubbly bombs are $2 each or $5 for a boxed favor set of 2.
the cost breakdown
14 decorated macarons: $56
14 Bubbly Bombs: $28
Total: $84
The Dresses and Accessories
Since our groom and groomsman brought their own suits for this shoot, I’ve included both of the wedding dresses and their accessories in the cost calculations, rather than one dress and one suit, but in all likelihood the final price point similar to, if not higher than, what it would cost to outfit a celebrant dress and suit and an attendant dress and suit.
the cost breakdown
From Kimberly Jaymes-
Stella York 6988 (ballgown): aprox. $1300
Casablanca Bridal Style 2369 Alexis: approx. $1800
Attendant Dress Sorella Vita 9344 Sapphire: $290
Ava Couture Headband: $229
Casablanca Bridal Veil: $250.00
From Zappos -
Blue by Betsey Johnson Val Pump: $139
Wedding Wear Total: $4,008
The Glam Squad
Simply Captivating Salon Booking Minimums: the Celebrant, plus 4 adults for one stylist
JL Makeup Studio and Beauty Boutique: Booking Minimums: the Celebrant, plus 4 adults (on Saturdays from May - Nov.)
the cost breakdown
Celebrant Hair Style: $235 – $285 (includes trial consultation & pictures of trial style)
Non-Celebrant Adult Hair Style: $100
Celebrant Makeup: $150.00
Celebrant Makeup Trial: $100.00
Attendant Makeup: $100.00
Total: approximately $1,035
The Planner
When booking any of my packages, my clients gain access to my rental collection, which we used for this shoot — the champagne cart, calligraphy picture frame signs, silver trays, etc. I’ve priced this with my signature level planning and and design collection to reflect the amount of planning and design work that went into this styled wedding.
The cost breakdown
Planning, Design, and Coordination: $2,700+
Rentals: approx. $310
Total: approximately $3,010
The Photographer
Jackson Signature Photography offers customized packages that all include photos, your engagement session, wedding planning services, and online photo viewing and sharing. The 5-hour package is perfect for this micro-wedding.
the cost breakdown
5 Hours of Photography Coverage: $4,000
The Total Investment
Venue: $3,750
Linens: $417
Tableware and Chairs: $365
Florals: $1,845
Stationary: $118
Cake: $700
Macarons and Bubbly Bombs: $84
Wedding Wear: $4,008
Hair and Makeup Artists: $1,035
Planning, Design, and Rentals: $3,010
Photography: $4,000
The Total Cost
Approximately $19, 332
So there you have it, all broken down. Of course, there are other costs that go into weddings that aren’t outlined here — like rings, the officiant, a dj or a band, etc. — but this gives you a fairly comprehensive idea of the key categories involved.
A micro-wedding doesn’t have to be a way to cut corners, but instead, an occasion to splurge on yourselves and have a lavish celebration with your nearest and dearest.
Ready to host your own spectacular celebration? Check out my service collections and send me a message.
As always,
Happy Planning!
Dara
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